The hole in our soul is like a tooth cavity. Unless we fill it with something of substance that is designed specifically for the job, it will continue to be filled with the wrong things, causing more harm, and eventually infection. #psychology #soul #value #humanity #growth #youarevalued #psychspot
A "new you" doesn't have to wait, and a "new you" won't magically happen on January 1st. But that doesn't mean a "new you" can't happen. It can happen at any moment you choose. Don't put magical meaning on a day.
It's OK to be sad. It's part of our experience, but we can't lose something we never had, and we don't know sadness unless we've felt happiness. Embrace your happycholy and drift away for a moment.
As you read this you may been think about some of the arcs in your life and maybe have an involuntary smile, a small sigh of sadness. It's good - it means your still alive and still feeling. It means you're happycholy.
Fear will destroy everything you ever worked for. It will stop you not just achieving your goals, but can stop you even trying.
In a world where people are increasingly more resistant to the idea that someone can disagree without being the enemy it isn't an easy concept to take in, but we can actually do this if we want to. We can change the world, one person at a time simply by listening, allowing a voice, and growing. Try it, I guarantee your stress will decrease.
It's not easy to admit we are wrong. It sucks. But that's OK. Any time we have to change our position, learn new ideas, or admit we may have flaws in our worldview it is difficult, but that doesn't mean we should simply double down. Learn, grow, and allow yourself to be challenged, it's a lot less stressful to be open to a challenge and learn than it is to perform the mental gymnastics of defending an indefensible position.
This may be an uncomfortable reality, but you are wrong. So am I. We all are. We are all wrong in something. Whether it is in a relationship, an assumption about how the world works, a mistake we keep making at work or school, or our belief in God. We are getting something wrong, and you know what? It's OK, just keep learning.
We don't need to be a meteorologist to see the effects of the wind and what I am asking is for everyone to please play nice and stay open to learning and supporting each other for the good of all. Ultimately whether someone has an MI or not we are all trying to work to the same ends aren't we?
I used to live in Texas, and one time while out hiking with my wife we had our route blocked by this spider, it was about the size of child's hand. I am no arachnologist but I think it was a black and yellow argiope (like the one in the picture). You can't really tell … Continue reading Psychology Of Spiders