In sport, whether as athletes or coaches, the message needs to be clear - there is always more to come. There can always be growth. We can always perform better. We can ask for more. #athletes #lionesses #neville #england #psychspot
Cristiano Ronaldo didn't start with Sunday League talent, he was way above average to start, but his attitude drove him on to success that more talented, and more experienced players didn't achieve. #success #goals #attitude #psychology #performance #psychspot
This week we'll look at why the attitude we choose, and help others to choose, is one of the most important things we can do to create a better world. #attitude #ability #desire #goals #drive #psychology #psychspot
Learned helplessness happens when we don't believe we have the ability to change our world & that external forces are against us. If that's true, we wouldn't bother to learn or practice anything. We can change our destination, but sometimes we have to turn the corner to meet the success that awaits those who persist.
We need to help our youth athletes develop and use the skill they have, but it means nothing unless we help them know how to use the skill. If we don't help them develop that side of their game they will forever be building on less than ideal foundations. This is true in sport and life.
If we want to see development, praising a kid for being fast or for looking flashy but losing the ball 9 times out of 10 isn't going to help. We need to reward the new behaviours, the growth, and the understanding of teamwork.
There is a fine line in superstition. It has to be believed for it to work, but it can't be given the full power of determining victory or defeat or there is no point practicing. For Skinner's pigeon the superstition worked, but only when it worked a little harder, went a little further, and did just a little more that it did last time.
Life comes at us fast and there are many moving parts. Sometimes we can't factor everything in and things go wrong. As long as we are aware things may go wrong, we won't get rattled when we have to change our path a little. Stay flexible and open to reevaluation.
If you focus on simply fixing the problem you are discounting any other potential paths you can take. Keep your eye on the goal and find solutions, use your energy to get to your destination.
If you are struggling today be on the lookout for the one person who encourages you and won’t let you fail. If you are in a position where you see someone in need, help them. You may be that one person who helps them change their life and become something more than they ever thought they could be.