It’s OK to be sad. It’s part of our experience, but we can’t lose something we never had, and we don’t know sadness unless we’ve felt happiness. Embrace your happycholy and drift away for a moment.
As you read this you may been think about some of the arcs in your life and maybe have an involuntary smile, a small sigh of sadness. It’s good – it means your still alive and still feeling. It means you’re happycholy.
There is a fine line in superstition. It has to be believed for it to work, but it can’t be given the full power of determining victory or defeat or there is no point practicing. For Skinner’s pigeon the superstition worked, but only when it worked a little harder, went a little further, and did just a little more that it did last time.
Can Ranieri Repeat Leicester Success at Fulham? No Way.
Ultimately the fear virus is beaten by maintaining a focus on the steps you need to take to meet your goals, and keeping your mind on positive outcomes. As Peter Gabriel says in the song Darkness:
“When I allow it to be, it has no control over me, I own my fear, so it doesn’t own me.”
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Fear will destroy everything you ever worked for. It will stop you not just achieving your goals, but can stop you even trying.
Success is relative. What one person sees as success another may see as failure. However, we all view success as comparative to something else. The important thing is to focus on your goals, stick with those where you can be a mutual encouragement, and remember that your success will dry up at the point your dedication and sacrifice do.
The question isn’t whether Rooney playing cheapens the England call-up, but how is it possible for a player to get a call-up when they have won nothing. If anything, it should be the current squad asking if they have earned the right to play alongside Rooney.
Life comes at us fast and there are many moving parts. Sometimes we can’t factor everything in and things go wrong. As long as we are aware things may go wrong, we won’t get rattled when we have to change our path a little. Stay flexible and open to reevaluation.
To the opposing sides, an election comes down to a vote between violent mobs and racists. No wonder there are so many people disengaged from the process, who wants to be associated with that?